Wednesday 7 November 2012

The upbringing


I have met many peoples at different venues and conditions. Yes, each individuals have that unique character that builds their personality. The attitudes? Is depending on how they are taught to live.

And here, I am at the corner of remote area of Selangor. Its about a year since my parents started to moved from Ampang. Ampang, one of the part at the big city of Kuala Lumpur. Yeah, I have grown up as city girl and live in the rock jungle and yeah, I survived in the dark city that people used to say.

" KL tu bahaya weihh... SOSIALL"

I remember when I was at KMPk, the first day I introduced myself. They looked at me as if I was a b*tch from KL coming to steal your BF. They told me KLians are socia, weirdo attire and blah blah blah.
Ok, enough of me.

Reflecting back the memories that I had with them, I remember a friend of mine asking me where do I came from. She was quite surprised when I told her Im from KL coz she thought I was from some remote area at Perak. Whatta? Can't you see the signature of KL carved on my forehead?? HAHA
She said I was like a Kampung Girl. I took it as a compliment though. Sopan santun gittew.

Now, Im looking at my friends in uni. The advanced one with all so accessories and dress up? Trust me. They are the one from the remote area.
We used to watched dramas in TV showing all the BAIK and feminine baju kurung shy shy pandai masak girl are from kampung and the bandar girl is the one with the rusty head, spoiled and have short dresses.

Stepping on the reality baby. From what I have observed, the situation is opposing. It is not where do you come from. Its how the upbringing. And here, me at new home... I've seen enough of life.

THE MENTALITY.

The children are spoiled. They talked back to their parents. Harshly. At 9. Yeahhh, she was 9 years old. Imagine what happen for the next 10 years?

Ok. All is messing up right now.

What I really want to say here is do not judge people from where they are from. The personality is themselves, the attitude? Its how they were taught to think and to behave. And... how much control of them over their own self.



YOU ARE THE MASTER OF YOURSELF! YOU TELL YOUR MIND WHAT TO DO!

Jeez.. thats a relief. :D

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